Planning together...
Ladies, this one is for you….
Every little girl dreams of her wedding day and knows pretty much exactly what she wants and does not want. However, the saying “the wedding day is the Bride’s day” is out the window nowadays. Most grooms want to be involved in the planning too. It is important for both the bride and groom to plan the wedding. Your groom doesn’t want to feel like a guest at his own wedding, nor do you want him to feel that way. You should share in the excitement of planning together. It is a good way to dream together and pursue what each other has envisioned. Compromises might even have to be made on some issues.
Not only will this be fun for both you and the groom, but also it is important for both of you to share the responsibilities of the actual planning. Budget, venue location, menu selections, guest list, writing thank you cards for gifts are just a few items that should be shared during the planning of your wedding. You plan to share a life together and in that relationship, you will need to work together, share responsibilities and yield to one another’s likes and dislikes. You may come across some disagreements but try to make this as enjoyable as possible. This is your and his wedding day after all!